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<!--Generated by Squarespace Site Server v5.11.81 (http://www.squarespace.com/) on Tue, 29 May 2012 12:21:49 GMT--><feed xmlns="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/"><title>Dr Helena Popovic :: What's Up Doc?</title><subtitle>What's Up Doc?</subtitle><id>http://www.helenapopovic.com/whats-up-doc/</id><link rel="alternate" type="application/xhtml+xml" href="http://www.helenapopovic.com/whats-up-doc/"/><link rel="self" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://www.helenapopovic.com/whats-up-doc/atom.xml"/><updated>2012-01-24T01:08:39Z</updated><generator uri="http://www.squarespace.com/" version="Squarespace Site Server v5.11.81 (http://www.squarespace.com/)">Squarespace</generator><entry><title>Start the Year With a Smile!</title><id>http://www.helenapopovic.com/whats-up-doc/2012/1/23/start-the-year-with-a-smile.html</id><link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://www.helenapopovic.com/whats-up-doc/2012/1/23/start-the-year-with-a-smile.html"/><author><name>Dr Helena Popovic</name></author><published>2012-01-24T01:07:45Z</published><updated>2012-01-24T01:07:45Z</updated><summary type="html" xml:lang="en-US"><![CDATA[Research has found that Facebook members who smile in their profile photos have around 15% more close friends than non-smilers.  Another analysis of Facebook uncovered that smilers tend to cluster with other smilers.]]></summary></entry><entry><title>What’s your intention for 2010?</title><id>http://www.helenapopovic.com/whats-up-doc/2009/12/22/whats-your-intention-for-2010.html</id><link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://www.helenapopovic.com/whats-up-doc/2009/12/22/whats-your-intention-for-2010.html"/><author><name>Dr Helena Popovic</name></author><published>2009-12-22T08:54:00Z</published><updated>2009-12-22T08:54:00Z</updated><content type="html" xml:lang="en-US"><![CDATA[<p>I woke up knowing it was going to be a good day.</p>
<p>A friend visiting from the Sunshine Coast had stayed at my place the previous night and after she drove off in the morning, I went for a short jog to pick up my car from where it was parked in a nearby suburb.&nbsp; All the parking in my street is for a maximum of a few hours at a time, so the day before I&rsquo;d moved my car from my undercover car parking spot so that she could park her car there overnight.&nbsp; Meanwhile my car would be safe and sound in a leafy street 15 minutes jog away.&nbsp;</p>
<p>When I arrived at my car, I noticed a small piece of paper caught under the windscreen wipers.&nbsp; I put the piece of paper in my pocket to place in the recycling bin when I arrived home.&nbsp; When I took the paper out again, I noticed it was a parking infringement notice for $50.&nbsp; I looked at the date and noticed it was today&rsquo;s date.&nbsp; How strange.&nbsp; Given that I&rsquo;d checked very carefully to make sure there were no parking meters and no signs saying I couldn&rsquo;t park in the street, the ticket obviously couldn&rsquo;t be mine.&nbsp; It must have blown off someone else&rsquo;s car some distance away and landed on my windscreen.&nbsp; The only thing contradicting this theory was the fact that my vehicle registration number was printed on the ticket.&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</p>
<p>I was certain a quick call to Brisbane City Council would clear things up immediately.&nbsp; After all, this was going to be a good day.&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</p>
<p>The first thing I discovered was that a call to Brisbane City Council is never quick.&nbsp; After pushing various buttons and wading through various unconcerned automated voices (which nonetheless professed to be concerned) I was finally greeted by the cheerful Mark.&nbsp; I explained that an error had occurred in the issuing of a parking infringement notice.&nbsp;</p>
<p>&ldquo;No, there&rsquo;s been no error.&nbsp; You were in a 2 hour parking zone,&rdquo; he said with the same level of concern as the automated voices.</p>
<p>&ldquo;But there were no signs anywhere in the street saying it was a 2 hour parking zone.&rdquo;&nbsp; I knew I was right.</p>
<p>&ldquo;The suburb of West End, where you parked your vehicle, is classified as a 2 hour parking zone unless otherwise stated.&rdquo;</p>
<p>&ldquo;But how am I supposed to know that?&nbsp; At no time when I sat for my driver&rsquo;s licence was I told I&rsquo;d need mind-reading skills.&rdquo;</p>
<p>&ldquo;Surely you would have noticed the signs as you drove into the suburb, stating that West End was a 2 hour parking zone.&rdquo;</p>
<p>&ldquo;Surely if I&rsquo;d noticed I wouldn&rsquo;t have parked there for more than 2 hours.&rdquo;</p>
<p>&ldquo;Then it&rsquo;s unfortunate you didn&rsquo;t notice.&rdquo;</p>
<p>A long pause ensued.</p>
<p>&ldquo;Yes, it&rsquo;s very unfortunate that I didn&rsquo;t notice.&nbsp; Thank you for letting me know.&nbsp; I&rsquo;ll certainly never park there again.&nbsp; Given my remorse for breaking a rule I was unaware of, I&rsquo;d like to ask that the penalty be waived.&rdquo;</p>
<p>&ldquo;I am in no position to make any decisions about your case.&nbsp; If you want to take this further I suggest you write to the Appeals Review Officer.&nbsp; The address is on the back of the infringement notice.&rdquo;</p>
<p>So that&rsquo;s exactly what I did.&nbsp;</p>
<p>When I finished my A4 page-long letter outlining why my penalty should be waived, a rush of goodwill came over me and I added a Merry Christmas wish for all at Brisbane City Council.&nbsp; As I was about to put the letter in an envelope, another rush of something came over me and I took out a Christmas card so that I could write a longer message of warmth to all at Brisbane City Council.&nbsp; I stapled the letter to the card and immediately ran to the nearest post box.&nbsp;</p>
<p>As I started walking home, I got the giggles.&nbsp; I began to imagine what the person opening the card and letter would be thinking and started laughing even more.&nbsp; Several passers by looked at me as though I were mad.&nbsp; I laughed even harder at the thought of explaining to them why I was laughing and by the time I arrived home I&rsquo;d completely lost it.&nbsp; I can&rsquo;t remember the last time I laughed so much.&nbsp;</p>
<p>I&rsquo;d set out to dispute the injustice of a situation and to try and avoid paying a $50 fine I didn&rsquo;t think I deserved.&nbsp; I also did it because I&rsquo;d decided at the start of the day it was going to be a good day.&nbsp; That meant I was going to be proactive about making it good &ndash; both consciously and subconsciously.</p>
<p>I don&rsquo;t care any more if I end up having to pay the fine or not.&nbsp; The laugh was worth it.&nbsp; And it was a cheap price to pay to be reminded of the power of intention.&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</p>
<p>What&rsquo;s your intention for 2010?</p>]]></content></entry></feed>
